Friday, January 17, 2014

Martin Luther King, Jr.'s Words about Justice: A Call for A Collective State of Maladjustment (from 1967)


Martin Luther King, Jr.'s Words about Justice: Safety, Expediency, Vanity and Conscience: His Call for Our Collective State of Maladjustment



(On September 1, 1967, Martin Luther King, Jr. presented a keynote address to a national convention
group of psychologists: "The Role of the Behavioral Scientist in The Civil Rights Movement"    
The following are excerpts from that address:)
         
         "These are often difficult things to say but I have come to see more and more that it is necessary to utter the truth in order to deal with the great problems that we  face in our society.” ...“It is my deep conviction that justice is indivisible, that injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” ...“On some positions cowardice asks the question, "Is it safe?" Expediency asks the question, "Is it politic?" Vanity asks the question, "Is it popular?" But conscience must ask the question, "Is it right?" And there comes a time when one must take a stand that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular. But one must take it because it is right. And that is where I find myself today.”
         "... I am sure that we all recognize that there are some things in our society, some things in our world, to which we should never be adjusted... There are some things concerning which we must always be maladjusted if we are to be people of good will. We must never adjust ourselves to racial discrimination and racial segregation. We must never adjust ourselves to religious bigotry... Thus, it may well be that our world is in dire need of a new organization, the International Association for the Advancement of Creative Maladjustment. 
       "Men and women should be as maladjusted as the prophet Amos, who in the midst of the injustices of his day, could cry out in words that echo across the centuries, "Let justice roll down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream"; or as maladjusted as Abraham Lincoln, who in the midst of his vacillations finally came to see that this nation could not survive half slave and half free; or as maladjusted as Thomas Jefferson, who in the midst of an age amazingly adjusted to slavery, could scratch across the pages of history, words lifted to cosmic proportions, "We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal..." 
        "... And through such creative maladjustment, we may be able to emerge from the bleak and desolate midnight of man's inhumanity to man.... I have not lost hope. I must confess that these have been very difficult days for me personally. And these have been difficult days for every Civil Rights leader, for every lover of justice and peace.”

The complete Distinguished Address  to the the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues is online at http://bit.ly/WoaeGF.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Empathy Is a Radical Tool of Social Change: It's Far More Than a Soft, Fluffy Concept!


In contemplating the passing of Nelson Mandela, I return to this brilliant RSA animation video which captures the radical power of peacemaking. We make choices in each encounter we join, in our home, our workplace, our community, our world... every single day. I begin my day with this in mind... as I contemplate my gratitudes... and step outside myself... let the day begin!

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Virtual Mediation Lab Has a Beautiful Series Illustrating How Simple It Is to Conduct Mediations Online



I applaud Giuseppe Leone's work,  developing Virtual Mediation Lab, in Hawaii.  It is a great resource for mediators (of all kinds, as applied to all settings) and I have been keeping an eye on it for quite awhile. Recently, they started publishing their data and it's pretty impressive! As a long time "distance mediator," I have used iChat (alas, it is no more!) and more recently, Skype, for distance mediation and co-parenting. I preferred iChat because it could be encrypted and that always puts a smile on my cautious little face! However, since iChat has gone the way of the dodo bird, Skype is the platform of choice for precisely the reasons Mr. Leone describes: it is easy to use and it is inexpensive. I understand people's reluctance to use these tools. It is always weird to be able to see yourself and hear yourself on video- but I guess I have gotten used to it- and really find it amazingly  useful, even if the parties do not live far away from me or from each other. Sometimes, people cannot compose themselves well if they are both sitting together in my office. In those cases, I will have one party with me in the office and the other "virtually present" on the computer, via Skype. Thank you, Mr. Leone, for this wonderful resource, Virtual Mediation Lab! Ciao... :)